helen rules, hierachy, tips

022309
if all calls start joyfully by one side say fh, then end up always conflicts unhappily or helen :"why u r so upset!"...etc (simply because the longer the talk, the more excuse it comes out, the more flattering about this and that, and no meeting of minds...etc
trust..
belief
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honesty
diginity
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all counts in real estate..

022309mon
not appreciate even you call helen to tell what philip diep called me
she keep asking if justin has conflicted with fh
keep asking if any undertable dollar (from day 1 i have told you and no way you need to think that, no way you need to accuse others that)
helen:"no need to waste my time and tell me. I am not questioning you why justin do that! why justin take johny from premier to the new company grand ave, I know this on Friday" (helen know this and she will not tell me by excusing that she don't want to disturb me but in fact, helen lost trust already)
helen:"why justin not cc fh?" (in reality, justin not cc me cos he want me to keep out of his loop simply == protection so that broker can still survive, simple as that)

120908mon
like sa kung white chicken - what she ordered
for snack last time it is white cloud chicken leg
no lemon tea
she is good at allowing fh to choose..
she is good at paying back after I paid couple times
she won't insist to pay if I said so!!

101608sat
ask me dine out then karaokay but i only stay dinner
too much drinking hurt and too much karokay cost
if you love someone, then whatever she did is good
likewise, if you don't love hn anymore, then you care about
smoking, drinking, clubbing, backslapping, gaining weight, not hardwork
...etc
why do i go to that area?

101108sat
after class, after she bring client to property checking, I said calling her later but then if i calll her later, then she meet majoh players (if u want to invite people, then do it earlier)
in fact I am aware that she is good at ASSUMING me to meet her
if I said :"call me later after you are done"
then she will assuming I am meeting her
(lesson: do not ask her to call me at all - just say NO)



101008sat
you like people praise you
you do not have security yourself so you keep expecting people saying how good u r
you don't have accountablity
like you said you meet but later you do n't turn up
(next time I can say :"I have 2 things I plan to do first, so if I finish them, then I come. otherwise, I will not come at all"

at night helen called my hotel saying at 10 pm, she failed to get hold of me
then just tell me about contractor insurance that yeeman asked her

although she reminded me to followup with yeeman, I don't want to tell her
anything more than necessary now
about how I pursue yeeman and yelled at her about broker
(I don't need her agreement anymore cos she is using my words against francis)

hurtful and true

100508 dragon boat event
developping photo itself is good but
giving photos out for helen to see
introduce "why now?" "ifit is secretive?" why waste $
no way to argue by me (why arguementative always!) ==> helen is right
fh is right too ==> promote team work, produce positive air, $ is secondary,
(rule:? do not develope redundant photos for team working purpose!)


100408
one day helen said fh is not accountable
becos
all of a sudden, fh said "helping helen powerpoint" but not done aviva and
the worst thing is hn told ronald
how come not done? hn love to say negative about unliked one
just like jennifer who did something wrong but still why jenny is also being complainted as a naive
feyon followed, glen followed, peter followed, ronald followed and who else supported jennifer!!! (if I do not follow? then I will also be the outcasted)
especially hn already said jenny is No 1 fool and fh is number 2 fool.
unlike ch so much, hn did not have that air


091908sat
3rd time but longer and elle bouche-job moi longer too
wash moi dabord and her bain avec locked door this time..ha ha
je lui bouch job aussi mais seulement deux fois parceque ce smell et
je dois practise plus
juscequ'ca 10:20 je parte

091508sun
wash her car again, she will save apple by making apple juice
why did she cry in bed of r125?
最困難的是愛, 但是不能在一起
最困難的是愛一個人 但是不能在一起
gill at tomo compliment the room (lucky)
peter (frnd of diane) pay for cafe mum 2 beef 1 seafood at employee rate! (more luck)
love japanese snack too
hot tea for eyes


090708sun
no business talk unless specific on SUNDAY
you invite me (you call me) so you do this & that
boring if not clubbing..I turned down 2 mahjoh & jenny
please do not driving others
do not teaching RE since student quitted afterwards = waste

no credit fh cos fh invite for lunch (getup and call) vs
fh disputed that I invite for dinner



08/21/08th
everything met to have a reason
after i told helen my history
helen :"real est and insurance fit you, it is high pay"
it has residue income vs wine and interpretation has no residue income
long term building and life is improving
E&O account creation for 3K then $10K per year -- business is by link [one account $100K per year with form and people and fax in and back, they give us certificate adn we send to people, 1 pax No $; but 3000 pax alot of $; life agent will buy E&O every year]
like light bulb radiate light just by connecting
connecting the well, there you go with water

helen -kathy is farmer client, every other day call helen
helen - jenny recruit sam
[sell people a dream]== some people make it, other don't; if no dream, then sad

galaxy is master - u look for $15 per hours?! fh is looking for that too
galaxy is manager have only 50cent more than others with only $5.5 only, helen complaint gradually until he change his job, galaxy work in 7-11 trash job, at 40 age he has to work clerical, otherwise no clerical job, galaxy is working in medical recording but laid off, agency hire him and pay him for airline
he has to match with whatever level people, then fh can get their mentality

jenny should hang around with up people, say-no people, then depressed
recruitee reject alot and so no need to deal with low people

you are more educated, you are more superior with rich, successful people

i like people asking me something
i don't want to hold hand and carry them

i pass only when i am young; i have cloth and okay to give away = now change
i have to ask better life
if every friday meeting, glen said ok in SF

unqualifier - high paid but unsatisfied people only

qualified people - i have to listen to them in phone and see any feedback

helen: too humble, mindset is compulsive, too under-estimate self,

ross: force me to sign name, i complaint to human resources and all are mad at me, district people complaint that i am late, my cabinet has no paper but i may throw away [based on that they write me up but i reject]

dignity is important = young time teacher said i m cheating but i am not, i dislike people wrongfully blaming me